(Closed) Baddass Bees, share your bad dating experiences with me for some perspectiveposted 3 years ago in Relationships
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
itwillallworkout : Oh homie…. I have stories.
So I met this one guy on a dating site. Went for a first date, it was nice. We were chatting on the phone before our second date and I mentioned I was helping my manager go through resumes. He asked if I would be a reference if he applied. Weird but said ok. Second date was great. He got an interview and we planned coffee when he was done/before I went into work. I had decided to tell my boss not to hire him because I thought it was weird, but at coffee he said they hired him on the spot! We went out for 8 months. We were never exclusive, but I did check in with him multiple times to see if he was dating anyone else. He always said he wasn’t but was ok if I wanted to. I tried to break it off around 5 months in but he begged for another chance and I gave it to him. Then he attempted to ghost me 8 months in. Keep in mind- we still worked together. And I was not his supervisor, but in a higher position in the same department so I had to assist him if he had trouble with something, things like that. Anyway, about a month after he just randomly stopped talking to me I imported my email contacts into myspace (yes, this was a long time ago) and found out he had a profile. And via that profile I saw he had a girlfriend…. of ten years. TEN YEARS. And he cheated on her with me for 8 months. And decided to get a job at his mistress’s office! What the fuck? When I confronted him he acted like I was in love with him and that’s why I was angry. What the fuck ever, fuckboy.
Then the last guy I dated before my husband… I got a text from someone saying “Hey this is S***** how are you?” And I was like “S who?” cause I know a couple guys with that name. The guy acted like I should know, then finally said we’d met on a dating site THREE YEARS PRIOR but never got together. Weirdo. My BFF advised me to give him a chance, which was stupid but I did. He was such a loser. In his late 30s, still living with his parents, mostly not working. Whined about everything under the sun. I don’t know why I kept dating him. It was so dumb. I finally stopped talking to him when he slapped me. Yup. Slapped me across the face.
Over a year later I get a text from him which you can read about here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-texted-me/. Be sure to read page 4 for a several months later update! This asshole is a gem. Thankfully, after the second text I haven’t heard from him again.
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2016
Oh I have tons from online dating. I use to give them nicknames lol.
Pervy Prince: Worked for Disney. Tried to date he only wanted sex so we became weird friends. Anyways found out he ended getting arrested for sending lewd pics to a 16 year old.
Smelly dude: We went ice skating. He tried to be too touchy feely on a first date. I had a friend call me to get out of there. Like dude seriously shower before a date.
the cheap ass: wanted to always go Dutch after he was the one to invite me out, stole my Chanel sunglasses.
The cheater: we dated on and off for over two years we were only official for a few months in the beginning because he wasn’t ready to date…refused to let me meet his friends because I was “fat” I was a size 8 at the time. Anyways we had started to date again and he added me on Facebook where I saw his girlfriend of nearly two years…blocked him and stopped falling for his crap.
jr. high crush: he dated two of my friends in high school, tried to have me break up with one of them for him. I refused lol. We stayed friends on and off through college years. He always told me he liked me but I wasn’t his type. He is like 6’6 and liked tall skinny girls. And he wanted to make sure he had tall kids. Mind you I am 5’6 and come from a tall family on my dads side. Anyways I had lost 80 pounds and again a size 8 and we got closer. Hooked up. He asked me if I would lose more weight for him…ya last time I saw him we basically cursed out each other. My Darling Husband is actually an inch taller than him.
oi I dated arses lol
- 3 years ago
LittleDove : “Are you talking about me?” ahhhh absolutely brilliant! Pretty cool you managed to become freinds though!
littleitaly17 : oh dear… Sounds like a right d-bag! Disrespectful behaviour towards family = MASSIVE red flag.
TaurianDoll : thank you doll! I know what you mean about timelines, etc., it’s all in our heads… So happy things worked out for you so well.
Butterfly6 : thank you… My know it’s a journey and everyone goes through it, it’s part of the fun and tecahes you lessons even if you don’t always want to learn. P.S. Christina guy though! WOW! Just a bit awkward hahaha
duchessfriedrich : did you finish with him in the end? Sounds so wrong and obvious when you look back at it, but sometimes it’s hard to see sense whilst you are in a situation, isn’t it? Glad you got out though and things worked out! I feel lile I’m always attracted to men who cannot commit to me in the way I want.
snowflake8 : this reminds me of one of my exes actually. It was almost 3 years of “something” (mainly crazy sex and me hoping it would turn into something more). So I get what you mean about the thrill… It clouds your mind sometimes (did mine anyway) then you look back one day and think: “Really? Was I drunk the whole time??”
- 3 years ago
MexiPino : how some people do those things and live with themselves afterwards is just beyond me… I know you are totally over it now, but I’m livid on your behalf as we speak haha I’m gonna erad your other post in a minute…
rusticglambride : first things first, I’m really sorry about your Chanel glassess… Secondly, stories about guys forcing girls to lose weight are shocking! Really dude?? Even David Beckham couldn’t get away withd emanding that.
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: April 2017
annelise210516 : All my exes and ex-dates are EXACTLY what you describe. They’re not assholes! They’re soooo nice! If a woman is ever unhappy with them, it couldn’t possibly be their fault because they’re SUCH NICE GUYS. And any woman who isn’t interested in them is a stupid bitch who only dates bad boys.
I should have run from my ex-husband the day he explained, in great detail, why he was not a feminist.
- 3 years ago
misskate18 : do you know, I had this conversation with my male friend the other day actually… I hate when guys say that all girls friendzone nice guys only to run after bad boys, players, fuck boys, whatever you wanna call that type. I disagree with that because I’m utterly convinced no girl wants to be misstreated. It’s just sometimes we end up in situations and even relationships where we put up with more than we should and if you are like me, it takes longer to see that and get out. If someone is your “typical nice guy” ir doesn’t automatically make them a good partner. Guys who don’t “play games”, cheat or go hot & cold can still have traits that make them unsuitable for you. Plus, no matter how much you don’t want to play any games, when someone is too keen from the get-go it’s suspecious.
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