(Closed) Band regret? Please share your opinion. (WAY TOO PIC HEAVY)

posted 5 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Your thoughts???
    Your current set is better. : (84 votes)
    38 %
    Your imaginary set is better. : (33 votes)
    15 %
    It's not worth risking FH's feelings. He could be crushed. : (50 votes)
    22 %
    I think your FH will understand if you explain that you just want to bring out the e-ring. : (18 votes)
    8 %
    Just hold on for an anniversary or something. : (31 votes)
    14 %
    Other (see below) : (8 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    247 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    noooooo, I love your rings! I think they look fine, though I can see what you mean. Could they perhaps be soldered together and the centre stone of the e-ring moved to the centre (if that makes any sense at all. Or perhaps a thing rose gold band to stack between the two so that the main stone pops more? I think stacking would give you the most versatility, that way if you change your mind nothing is permanent. I have wedding band regret, and change my mind daily at the moment.  Sometimes goign through the motions makes you realise you’re happy with what you’ve got ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 4
    1154 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I have an idea!  My problem with the one tha you have is that it is so matchy..  But if you were to solder them together, but offset it, so that it’s a back and forth pattern, I think it would look awesome!  Hope fully that made sense..

    Post # 5
    799 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I like the post about stacking them. I love a stacked look– best of both worlds?

    Post # 6
    1154 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Let’s look past the crappy photoshop attempt and look at the pattern of the bands!  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 7
    1155 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Noooo the set you have now is gorgeous. And I love shared prong eternity bands (it’s what I have), but that would look really bad with your ering. It just wouldn’t work. If anything I’d go for a plain band, if you don’t like what you have, but I think what you have is perfect.

    I second the idea of adding a spacer.

    Anyway if you must change the band (noooo! Lol), definitely wait for a special anniversary at least. It’s not worth hurting your Fiance over.

    Post # 12
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I love it but if you think the bands don’t quite match, how about adding a stacking band between?


    Post # 13
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    your current band looks way better than a shared prong eternity band. 

    if you really want that eternity band, wait for an anniversary and wear it as a rhr.  not with your set.

    Post # 15
    374 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I love the set as it is!  It’s gorgeous and I think that matching is the way to go!

    Post # 16
    247 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013




    Where have you all learnt this photoshop malarky?? I am such a technophobe. I wish I could photoshop you a thin plain rose gold band between the two so that you can see what I mean (wedding band bottom, plain band, e-ring top) but that’s not going to happen anytime this decade:) 

    I retract my suggestion about soldering lol – they are just too beautiful individual to put together permanently.I like the offset look mind – would the rings stay like that without being soldered, or do they have a tendency to twist throughout the day? 


    EDIT: If you go down to comment 10 you can kinda see what I mean http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/traditional-vs-unusual-wedding-band 


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