(Closed) Joint Banking

posted 7 years ago in Money
  • poll: Joint Banking
    We did it when we moved in together : (28 votes)
    21 %
    We did it after we got engaged : (37 votes)
    28 %
    We did it after the wedding : (47 votes)
    35 %
    We never joined accounts : (21 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2239 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We still don’t have joint accounts. Each of us is “assigned” different bills to pay. I pay my car payment, half of the car insurance, cable, and power. Husband pays the rent and his student loan payments. I make less than him so he pays a larger percentage of bills than I do. Whatever’s left after bills is our own, but we take turns buying groceries, put gas in our own cars, and alternate who pays when we go out on dates. It’s been that way for almost 4 years of living together so I don’t see it changing because it works well for us.

    Post # 4
    Member
    579 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I choose ‘we Never joined accounts’ as we both have Our own separate accounts however we do have a joint account for house expenses only!

    Post # 5
    Member
    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    We have a joint account for all joint expenses, and personal accounts for fun money. We contribute equal amounts to the joint account.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1843 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We joined our accounts after we were married and honestly, it’s been tough.  We’re both successful and have great careers, but we’re also both independent and used to spending when and how we want.  I’ve actually proposed splitting our accounts and doing as we did before (we lived together for two years and just split the bills).

    Post # 7
    Member
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We joined our accounts very early.  Darling Husband came over to watch a movie, and basically never left.  He lived three doors down (which was awesome.)  We have been together ever since.  He wanted to move out of his place and since he basically never left, it was natural that he started helping pay rent (he had no rent at his other place other than bills.)  So, we had a joint account very early on.

    Post # 8
    Member
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We’ve had joint accounts since we moved in together 4.5 years ago. We used to each have a personal account and a joint account but when we got married we joined everything. We have two joint accounts – one is our checking that we use for bills and rent and everything and the other is for savings. We use the cash method (we each get $100/week of cold hard cash) and that has worked well for us.

    Post # 9
    Member
    94 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We’ve had our joint account for several years. We each deposit an equal amount to pay bills, buy groceries, and pay for nights out on it. We each have our own accounts for everything else. I’m planning to keep it this way after we’re married. As far as I’m concerned, as long as I’m covering half of our expenses, how I choose to spend money is none of his business.

    Post # 9
    Member
    14481 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We never got joint accounts but just linked our personal account together so that we have access.  Not that we dig in to each others accounts, but can transfer money around if needed.  We treat the money as joint and are each able to spend freely.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1002 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We got a joint account when we got engaged so we can save for the wedding in that specific account. We still have our separate accounts, which we will keep, even after the wedding.

    Post # 11
    Member
    631 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We’re a little old school I guess. I didn’t have an account when Fiance and I met, and when I moved in with him I was added to his account. Both of our paychecks go into the same account and always have, but I handle the finances and bill paying. We generally don’t ‘split’ our money.

    Post # 12
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @PitBulLover: Our stories are exactly the same. We both also get an alloted allowance.

    Post # 13
    Member
    2442 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    No joint accounts here.  He gives me money and I put it in my checking account.  I pay all the bills, buy all the groceries etc. with the money from my checking account (that both of us have contributed to but he does not have access, however he maintains some degree of control because he decides the amount of money he wants to give me). *DH is a small businessman so the amount of money he earns each week/month/year is not consistent and the amount of money he gives me changes frequently. Some months are awesome.  Some months are lean.  

    Post # 14
    Member
    1542 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We have one joined account we started it intending to save money for the wedding. I’m not sure if we can call it joined since I have control of it, I’m the saver while he’s a spender and needs this money out of his reach.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Darling Husband and I opened joint accounts while we were engaged. That was when we started considering everything as “our” money instead of mine and his. Now money is very tight (I’m a student and he’s unemployed), so almost all of it has to go for our essentials. We do try to keep about $20 each per month to spend independently. It’s very important to both of us that we be able to buy somethings without approval from the other.

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