- 6 years ago
So I am not sure what to do in this situation. Dirty Delete is 3 months old. A friend of mine whose DS is the same age is having the baptims in April and she sent us an invite to the church and a really fancy after dinner.
Well here is the thing. I wasn’t planning on inviting any of our friends to the baptism, was just going to do family. The other part of this is that prior to our children being born, we grew very distant, well she grew distant. This friend is very jealous and feels the need to always compete. She got very upset that I told her I was expecting before she had the chance to tell me. I had no idea she was expecting and was very excited for her, and excited to have a supposed really good friend go through pregnancy together. I was constantly trying to get together and do preggo things. She wanted NO part of it.
The only time I saw her durning our pregnancy was at her shower and it was a MAD dash for her to have her shower before mine. The only time she would talk to me was to talk about her pregnancy and never once acknoweldging that I was expecting too. It was almost like I wasn’t even pregnant in her eyes.
Since the babies, I have yet to see her. I have asked her many times if she wants to do lunch or do a playdate ( we live 10 mins from each other) and she either ignores me or tells me she will get back to me and never does. Though I see on her FB that she has done playdates with others.
Then we OUT OF THE BLUE get this fancy invite to the baptism and I am really taken back. My Darling Husband thinks she invited us as more of a showy, throw it in our face type thing and really doesn’t want to go. Now I feel uncomfortable about getting an invite to hers and not sending her an invite. Darling Husband doesn’t want to change the dynamics of our idea of who we want to include in the baptism ( just family).
I don’t know what to do, thoughts?