(Closed) Bases?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would define bases as being…

1st: Kiss

2nd: More making out, lol… how else to say, but “light petting”

3rd: I’m not sure, but I’d say “heavy petting” if you get my drift… don’t know if I’d classify oral sex under here or under “all the way home”. 🙂

Post # 4
2143 posts
Buzzing bee

1st- kissing, handholding. Nothing too big

2nd- making out, a little more touchy feely but nothing below the belt yet

3rd- below the belt, including oral.

Home- the rest of the way lol

Post # 5
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I always thought 

1st making out

2nd below the belt hands

3rd oral

But– I know thats a big jump between 1 and 2…. not sure what the “real” way is. 🙂

Post # 6
582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’ve heard it two ways. 

One, more conservative, the one we used in high school:

First base is kissing

Second base is hands above the waist

third base is hands below the waist

Home run is sx


Second system, more liberated, the one we used in college:

First base is kissing

Second base is anything you do with your hands, above or below the waist

Third base is oral sex

Home run is sex


I think this has changed as sexual practices and norms among the younger generation have changed. Oral sex became more common, I guess. 

Post # 7
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

where I grew up, first base meant a kiss, second meant copping a feel, and third meant oral. Home run, of course, meant sealing the deal with sex.

Post # 8
5153 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010


2)more then “making out” so petting…

3)belooow the belt, oral sex included



atleast how I learned it 🙂

Post # 9
2767 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

1 – kissing

2 – touching the chest area

3 – touching below or oral sex

4 – intercourse

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