(Closed) Bday weekend + Suspicious behavior= ?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Don’t get your hopes up too high, but the signs are good!  Enjoy your birthday no matter what happens (happy early birthday!) and good luck this weekend πŸ™‚

Oh and I definitely imagined a ring on my finger on more than one occasion before I was engaged!  Hahaha… 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

@dance: I do it all the time… Only… I open up a photo of the ring I love and hold my hand beside it and place my hand on my laptop screen :

Gwen.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

I hope that your right and it does happen on your b-day.  If doesn’t though just try to be happy and celebrate knowing at least you’ll have you guy by your side.  I do envision what my e-ring will look like on my hand I pop open a photo of it all the time. When it comes to envisioning a ring on my finger well I solved that problem.  I bought a plain band to wear on my ring finger to get use to wearing jewelry and for fun.  I just can’t wait until it’ll get replaced by my e-ring one day.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Girl, I know how you feel, and I was there last week, lol!  Here’s to hoping and wishing that there’s some magic in your meatloaf!  Just sit back and enjoy all the extra romance from your sweetie, have a wonderful birthday celebration, and know in your heart that his mom’s ring will be on your finger very soon.  Yippeeeeee!!!!!!!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee

I’m the same way–every big event and now with the holidays I will be thinking, “is it going to happen now??” He did recently tell me that he doesn’t want to do it during the holidays when everyone else is doing it, which makes sense, but also makes me kind of sad πŸ™ But you are not alone in thinking this!

I also look at my naked ring finger a lot, moreso recently. Especially when I see someone with a particularly gorgeous ring, or when I look at the ones I wish I had. Sigh….

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

This–> On a side note, do any of you waiting bees find yourself looking at your ring finger and just imagining what a ring there would look like?  I do this a lot, and feel like such a weirdo whenever I catch myself at it…..is sooooo me!

But I agree stay calm and try to keep your mind on other stuff. So easier said than done right?

Post # 11
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Helper bee

@Gwen Von D: Me too! I find that since I have found ‘the ring’ I will do this more than I am comfortable admitting! LOL. A girl can dream right?

@AmyDee: Ugh I know what you mean about the holidays thing, especially with Christmas and New Years coming up right? All the signs are looking good, just remember to hide the disappointment if its not a ring as your present. But, keep thinking positive right! πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Good luck!!   And Happy Birthday!

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

i used to imagine it, now i feel so strange when i dont have it on. I really hope he pulls a fast one and does it this weekend! you have to keep us updated!

Post # 14
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Newbee

@AmyDee:

I don’t look at my ring finger imagining what it will look like. But I do feel like my ring finger is missing something.  Sometimes, I look at my hand, and think “It feels empty!”

 

Post # 16
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Newbee

@AmyDee:

Happy birthday!  Hang in there….it will happen!  πŸ™‚

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