- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Hi Ladies…. Well if you read any of my post you all know that DH’s twin brother is getting married in 2 weeks…. we’ve been having some issues with them. Brother-In-Law cussed my mother out at my wedding, acted a fool, and FSIL’s Maid/Matron of Honor HORRIBLE cussed me out in concerns to shower/wedding gifts. (told me to go f* my self!) LoL
so… Future Sister-In-Law had 3 wedding showers… 3! And all of her family and friends live in a 1hr radius. So I attended the first one but not the other 2 due to work, and my daughter being ill. HOWEVER Isent gifts to all 3 showers. Here is what she received from me
Shower 1- Tiffany’s Wineglasses
Shower 2- Home decor items that were like $130
Shower 3- Entire wedding party went together to get them a firepit & outdoor bar (DH and I were the ones TOLD by her Maid/Matron of Honor that we would chose the gifts, pay for them, pick them up, and deliever them and they would all give money back) so we decided do to this only to be nice!
Ok so we couldn’t attend the 3rd shower but arranged to deliver the gifts to his parents to ensure they got to the 3rd shower. along with the wedding gift that was a NEW PATIO SET! However, her Maid/Matron of Honor believed that it was horrible that we couldn’t come and delievered it instead; that we were trying to make her look bad because she told us to get them and since she was the Maid/Matron of Honor having them there made her look better even though she did NOTHING to help us do any of it. So she continued to text me one night to tell me I was a “b*tch that needed to go f*ck myself because she was Maid/Matron of Honor and I should answer to her” Ya that dont happen or sit well with me. BUT even though Future Sister-In-Law was sitting there she said I shouldnt be mean to her MOH?! Oh well besides the point
ANYWHO… Today I get the Thank you for the showers (1 in June, 1 in July and 1 in Aug) I get the ONE thank you she sent out TODAY… here is word for word what its says
” K. (Me)
Thank you for the gifts. We liked them. See you at the wedding!
<3 Hearts <3 E (FSIL)”
WHAT!!! Now I had 2 showers because I live 2 hrs away from my inlaws… I had people I had never seen before at my showers and sent more of a personal thank you than that! I thanked them for coming, it was so nice to meet them, I love _______ that they got me etc… and for my Bridesmaid or Best Man and close friends and family I swear I almost wrote a book thanking them and how much they mean to me and that it was so important to me they were sharing my day etc. and this is what I get as her FSIL!?!?!?!?!? These people are driving me nuts!
We have code named this wedding the Royal Wedding 2.0 because Brother-In-Law & Future Sister-In-Law think they are some kind of King and Queen! I’m dreading being a Bridesmaid or Best Man at this wedding because Darling Husband is sick of their rude and “better than everyone” attitdue they have and I have a feeling might snap at the wedding. His family ruined our reception so I hope he is on his best behavior… Even though they are hurtful to me I dont want their wedding ruined!
So moral of story …. Ladies please do more than say Thanks see ya at the wedding in your thank yous!!!! LoL : )