(Closed) Be Careful About Who You Invite To Your Wedding! *VENT*

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee

That is really sad. Do you still work with these people.

If you do work with them I think it would actually be a good thing to say something to them. If you do it nicely, and directly they will be more respectful. Often people talk trash because they don’t respect the other people.

I would say something along the lines “I have heard that you didnt enjoy yourselves at my wedding, but it was a special day to me and I really enjoyed it. I am sorry you did not, but can you please not talk about my wedding to coworkers? Thanks”

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Thats ridiculous. Why would someone say those thing?! I mean really who does that?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@SkyBeauty37:  I’m so sorry!  They’re horrible!!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve been going back and forth on inviting some of my co-workers.  Although I don’t think they would be mean about my wedding or question Fiance and my love for each other, I have other reasons for not wanting to invite them.  I’ll remember your post!  Invites are going out this week!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Be careful–there are people (I don’t know if any of your coworkers are like this) who play a game called Let’s You and Him Fight. They’ll talk trash to you and say someone else said it to start drama.

Don’t let them. You don’t need that crap.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Aww that’s just sad. I would totally say something to them and tell them off!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Id have to be blunt with them and just speak directly to them,but keepit seemingly sweet and polite. something like “oh I heard you didnt enjoy our wedding,may I ask why? And why you feel it is appropriate to not come to me and speak to me about this?”

That should let them pull a few gobsmacked faces!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@SkyBeauty37:

I am so sorry that happened πŸ™  That’s just rude after you were so nice to invite them!!  I wish that your friend hadn’t said anything, it just hurts you for no reason you know?  But on the other hand, at least now you know how they really are.  Sheesh you would think we were dealing with a bunch of high schoolers here, not grown people in the workplace.  Just don’t do them any favours.  I know when it comes to work, it’s stupid to burn bridges with people because you never know when you might need them.  Keep this in the back of your mind.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

uhhh am i the only one who thinks the “nice” coworker is at fault too here?  what good could possibly come of telling you this information?  sounds like they just want to stir up drama.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@SkyBeauty37:Best wishes and congratulations on your beautiful day. And thank you for helping people be sure of their invite list.

Sounds like, even though those people suck, you still had a great time. πŸ™‚ That’s because you rock.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

AYE. It is for this very same reason that I am only inviting my boss and one other older lady from work.. none of the people my age.. they talk so much in general and I know for my wedding it would be no diffferent!

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

thank you for reaffirming my decision to not invite anyone from work.

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