(Closed) Be honest, do you prefer a good back & head scratch/rub over sex?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@panterapeach: couples massages! love them.

Post # 18
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Bumble Beekeeper

Hmmm…. depends on the day. I love both, but sometimes Im in the mood for one over the other.

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh hell yes! This really makes my fiance get angry…like I’m supposed to be in the mood at all times like he is….LOL!

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

LOL, yes. I prefer foot, leg and butt rubs over any sort of sexual favor. Nobody does it better than my husband and he knows it 🙂 He makes me drool with pleasure.

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

As someone who is waiting for the honeymoon…y’all are scaring me!  My Fiance gives great massages, but I’m hoping sex will be better!

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I totally agree with most of you. I looooove getting back/full body rubs. Gonna ask for one from the boy tonight 🙂

Post # 24
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

FH raked his fingers through my hair while he blow-dried it tonight. (Note: He never dries it, just decided to ‘give it a go’ tonight.)

It.was.heaven.

Post # 25
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

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@Stiz: Must get mine to do that for me. 

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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@peaches13: 

Don’t be scared! You could never replace sex with these things, but sometimes, if you are tired, these things just feel so good and you just lie there! With sex it’s about the intimacy and it’s a bit of give/take. With a back rub/scratch, you don’t have to do anything!  

Post # 27
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sadly, yes. Rub/scratch my back, legs, arms… body, amd I am one happy blissful girl.

Post # 28
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Oh God, how I wish I could get my back scratched and hair played with everyday! Sex is amazing though– no worries peaches13!  

 

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@Stiz: Wow, I’m so jealous! That does sounds like heaven!

Post # 29
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@Stiz: I just put that on my to-do list.

Post # 30
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Ohhh man! Now I need to book myself a massage! : D

As for the original question…I’m not sure. I get involved in them for very different reasons. Often I do ask my FH to give me a massage before we “get intimate”, but I wouldn’t say that I like them “better” than sex…just in a different way?

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