(Closed) be one of my MOH's??

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3070 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I hope you get a good answer to this. I always intended to have two (a maid and a matron), and I asked them separately (and didn’t inform them that there was another “candidate”). I didn’t consider until after the fact that one of them would assume she was asked first (she wasn’t). Now that she has declined, I don’t like that it seems like the one who agreed is believed to be her replacement. In all actuality I wanted both of them but now it doesn’t seem that way. 

Post # 4
1507 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Just tell her she’s going to be a co-MOH, especially if the three of you are all friends.

Post # 6
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I would just explain that both of them are your best friend so instead of having to choose one you want to honor both of them by them both being your MOH. If they are as close to you as you think you shouldn’t have a problem 🙂

Post # 7
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have two MOH’s, I called it co-MOH’s. They were still equally as excited and happy to be able to split the responsibility. 

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