Post # 1
So…what is your “bedroom tone” if you catch my drift? When you are getting intimate with your partner, how would you describe the general tone? For instance, for us it is more of a playful atmosphere. We are just excited to be with one another and have fun and laugh and feel very close with one another at the same time. I am wondering if we are the only ones who aren’t so serious during sex…we act completely the same as we do in our everyday life which is just very fun and playful and lighthearted.
I ask because when I read some of the boards on here it seems that many other bees have a very serious or intense tone, and others have a completely hot, sexy tone…would you say you act pretty much the same as you always do, or are you a completely different person in the bedroom? How would you describe your “bedroom tone?”
I’m just curious!
Post # 3
I would say it varies from one time to the next depending on our moods, the location, the circumstances, and so on. I would not say we have one standard “tone” except to love, connect, and enjoy each other and ourselves! It is more whatever comes naturally at the time and that can mean many different tones! Sometimes it is playful, sometimes it is smoldering, sometimes it is intense and emotional, sometimes it is sensous and gentle, and so on.
Post # 4
My Fiance always says that he turns into a “sexual beast” when we’re in the bedroom. Haha. We get very hot/sexy. =)
Post # 5
It depends on the day really. Often times we start off playful and then it always ends up hot & steamy
Post # 6
@LRCWedding: This too. 🙂
Im more of a goofball than Darling Husband.
Post # 7
We get very passionate while having sex usually. In fact, I always gagged at the term “making love” until I met SO. But I don’t know what it is… we joke around sooo much in and out of the bedroom, that when it’s that time of the night, a flip switches and I just can’t seem to have enough of him. It’s so intense that it used to freak me out a little.
I used to be way more playful during and even just talking about sex, and with how my friends see my SO treat me, they probably think we are probably more fun in the bedroom. I imagine they would probably be shocked by our actual bedroom tone. I mean, we are definitely the candlelight, Sade playing, taking an hour type of people–even after living together for five months lol.
I’m trying to get more playful, so any tips from ladies on the opposite side would be much appreciated too! 😉
Post # 8
Um yeah we’re pretty goofy. The other day things just weren’t working for whatever reason, one of us kept having to get up to close the blinds or check on something or whatever and we ended up just laughing at ourselves and I was like “this is not our best effort!” I think it’s a comfort level thing for me, when I first sleep with someone I usually want to seem perfect and sex-goddessy but after a while it’s soo much more casual and easier to admit that sometimes sex is pretty goofy.
Post # 9
We are pretty goofy. We don’t take ourselves too seriously and have fun with it!
Post # 10
we are very playful too. lots of laughing. especially when trying new things.
Post # 11
@kkish3: haha, definitely playful. we sometimes laugh at all the wrong times. Sometimes it’s more romantic/sensual though. But mostly we laugh.
Post # 12
We’re… yeah, pretty goofy. I mean, eventually things get serious, sure. But for the most part, any silliness just makes us laugh, doesn’t kill any “mood” or anything.
Post # 13
We’re a very playful couple and that can follow us to the bedroom sometimes but most of the time it’s very intimate, passionate and amazing. 🙂 Even if it starts out playful something happens and it just becomes more passionate. I too always found ‘making love’ a weird term but now I totally understand it.
Post # 14
haha well I’m glad to know we aren’t the only ones who laugh all the time! I thought I was a weirdo lol.