(Closed) Beeee quiet!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Maybe he’s hinting to see how you’re going to react? If he knows you’re waiting then that’s not very cool of him.  Perhaps it’s time to sit down and talk to him. Let him know you want to be engaged and every time he brings it up it stings a bit. Guys are clueless.

Post # 4
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3564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Guys really are clueless! 

You should tell him how you feel.  Maybe you should discuss marriage and the future of your relationship and talk out a vague timeline.  I wouldn’t put a demand on him, but after you tell him how you feel, kindly request that he not mention it constantly because you feel this way.

For the longest time my SO thought it was funny when people accidently referred to me as Mrs. (SO). He would say that because we’ve lived together for so long (6 years!) we were pretty much like a married couple anyway. It stung a little!

Around my 28th birthday, I was a little down, feeling “old” and depressed that I was yet ANOTHER year older and we seemed no where near getting married and starting our family. We ended up somewhat laying a timeline out.  We discussed marriage and starting a family and basically I told him I wanted to start our family when we’re 30 because I didn’t want to wait too long and be high risk.  We are both 28, and will be turning 29 early next year. We both agreed (for non-religious reasons) that we wanted to be married before we tried to have any kids.  This gave SO a 2 year window to propose and allow us time to plan our wedding.  I’m still waiting… 🙂

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