(Closed) Been a lot less able to shut it.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My best advice is trying not to nag… I know bc I am a terrible awful nagger.  SO brought up the topic of getting engaged last night and basically said he will do it as soon as possible so that he doesn’t have to hear me complain about it anymore and he can find peace.  He said of course he wants a future with me, but this has escalated to the point that he views proposing to me as an obligation.  Now I am not sure I even want him to propose, not if he views it that way… I know it’s hard bc I epic failed and brought it up constantly.  But you really need to drop it before the engagement is tainted from nagging.  I just don’t want you to be in the situation I am in right now.

Post # 4
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Helper bee

@buzzyplush:  Don’t have any advice just wanted to say I understand your pain. I am in the same situation. My SO even told me he will be proposing sometime this month and I still can’t seem to shut it. I’ve been good for about a week now but its hard. Has he given you a timeline at least?

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