(Closed) Been together 6 years and he still doesn’t…

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

This isn’t food related but he never gets how to do laundry right no matter how many times we go over it.  It drives me nuts because he keeps ruining our clothes.  He’ll put white shirts with new jeans or washes nice shirts in hot water with towels.  I just don’t understand how separating the laundry right is so challenging!  And by far the worst is that he forgets that he started a load of laundry and leaves it in the washer until I find it a couple days later.  I just don’t get it.  Maybe I’m being picky about how to separate stuff?

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Morning sex. Morning sex really grosses me out (I just feel ugly and my breath is bad and I am never in the mood to go at it first thing in the morning), yet EVERY MORNING, without fail, he attempts to get morning sex from me. Once every very very veryyyyyy once in awhile I give in, and I think I should stop, because this just gives him eternal hope for every Tuesday morning. 

Post # 19
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

@ohheavenlyday: Ditto. I don’t know what that is about. No, I’m not sexy right now, you are just horny. Eesh. And I can’t stand it sometimes because I’m like “No, seriously. I have to get up and go be an adult and seriously I need to pee.” Lol. I feel like an old lady. :/

Post # 20
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

My husband always gets me a poppyseed bagel instead of a sesame seed bagel. Ill even remind him right before he goes to get bagels sometimes and he will still bring back poppyseed!

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I have trouble remembering my husband’s weird food hangups. He generally avoids berries like strawberries and blueberries (my favorite). He hates the smell of cinnamon but will eat it on food. It gets confusing at times. He’s pretty good about remembering what I like.

Not food related, but on my birthday, I received a wilted bouquet from my parents (shipper’s fault). So, he came home from work with pink tulips since he knows I like them so much more than roses.

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@AmeliaBedelia: 

LOL right. Nighttime is no problem but I have never, since I have been having sex, been able to get in the mood for it at 6 am.

Post # 23
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@LauraCYW: This is the opposite, but my Fi heated up my hamburger this weekend the way i like. just the meat warmed up and put back on all the toppings. I almost cried. He usually heats the whole thing up I was majorly impressed.

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

He still hasn’t figured out that I HATE morning sex. I sweat a lot in my sleep, so I wake up all sweaty, and he has the WORST morning breath. Nothing is sexy about that. I’ll do it for the team sometimes, but it’s by far my least favorite time to have sex.

He’ll roll over in the morning and try getting me into it. Not happening!

Post # 26
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Buzzing bee

@ohheavenlyday: I keep a pack of mints in the nightstand for this exact reason 😉

Post # 28
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Boats–he can never remember that I get sea sick, so whenever we see boats he makes comments like, “wouldn’t it be fun to go out in that one?” Ummm, no, since I’ll feel like sh** the whole time.

We were at National Harbor, surrounded by boats and every 15 mins he would point out another boat and I would remind him *again* about gettting seasick. After the billiionth time, I had to ask him,”do you think that if you point out a boat that I think is really, really cool that somehow I *won’t* get sea sick?”

Post # 29
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Sugar bee

Mine is typically really wonderful about remembering things about me but… the kid should know by now that if he is eating toast or having milk with his dinner I obvioulsy would like some or would at least like for you to offer. I have told him this MANY MANY times!

He’s more the type that heard me say something once and then remembers it for the rest of his life. One time I said I really liked red roses and for the next 2 years that was all he would get me for special occasions. I’m like you know I like pink ones too, right? Now, my roses are always a multi colored.

Post # 30
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Ha, Fi is normally pretty good. However, this is after him calling and asking. He never does it without me asking. He is kinda bad at rememberign what sauces I like (buffalo and ranch!)

Post # 31
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

My husband always knows my order. I’m a picky eater, so I’m one of those people who say, “I want this without that or that and instead add that.” All I have to say to my husband is, “I want this with no gross stuff,” and he knows exactly what to tell the person.

I, on the other hand, am bad at remember what he wants. He’s usually the one getting take out though so he has more practice.

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