- 2 years ago
“He always tells me he wants to get married and he cant wait but he hasnt proposed…. The issue with him comes more from being difficult. For some strange reason he wants to get me an expensive ring that he knows he cant afford.”
Someone whose words and actions do not match up is not at all “amazing.” I don’t know what your definition of amazing is, but it is not amazing to mislead someone intentionally for years, talking a good game and then not following through. It reveals a major character flaw that you can’t trust this man to do what he claims to want to do, especially when it comes to such major life milestones as this that he is misleading her about. That’s pretty much all you need to know to deduce that this person’s character leaves a lot to be desired, regardless of the little things like he’s funny or charismatic. Those things are majorly overshadowed by his inability to be honest with his partner.
“Im sick of waiting.” Clearly OP is unhappy waiting around and he is still dragging his ass. Not amazing.
When someone is to the point of being unhappy and resentful because the relationship isn’t progressing, that is not amazing. Far from it.