Post # 1
Okay bees, I’m trying not to let this go to my head… SO just texted me earlier asking my opinion on him trading in his new car for a more modest car in order to stop having to make monthly $300 payments. Could it be he’s thinking of using that $$ to save for a ring?! I don’t want to jump to any conclusions… But he’s never spoke this way before!
Post # 3
I’ll have my fingers crossed for you, but please don’t jump to any conclusions. There are tons of reasons that he might be trying to save a little money.
Post # 4
have you discussed rings and stuff at all?
Post # 5
If you discussed it, then thats a good sign a proposal could be a in your future.
Post # 6
@Omgbunnies: we’ve been having similar money-talks lately… you could just say to him ‘well you could do, if you think a cheaper car will be ok– it depends how important it is to you to save that money, is it more of a nice to have thing or are you hoping to put it towards something else’? and see if he hints at anything?
Post # 7
I don’t think I’d jump to conclusions yet. I could be wrong, of course, but I’d rather be pleasantly surprised than disappointed, if I were you. If he mentioned that he’d like to save up for something else, then maybe… but I’ve traded in a car to get rid of $300 payments before, and I wasn’t saving for anything in particular. That’s a lot of money!