Post # 1
I am going nuts! I know that its coming and I can’t concentrate on anything ever because I just want my ring and I want the “official proposal” and to get the ball rolling! I know that an engagement doesn’t make my S/O anymore mine than without the ring but I cant wait any longer!
I AM GOING NUTS. Anyone else go crazy while they were waiting for their ring?
Post # 3
@ohhbitty: Umm, yes! My SO bought my ring in June and I was there, so I know for a fact that he has it. Not to mention I know where he “hid” it in the closet. Sometimes when he isn’t around, I peek in the closet just to see the bag– I haven’t opened it yet, only looking at the bag itself. The bag makes me smile because I know my ring is in there lol!
We are planning for a June 2015 wedding so I guess he isn’t in a rush 😛 He bought it back when we thought we would get married next year, but with school and everything, 2015 makes more sense.
I am anxious though!!
Post # 4
@ohhbitty: me too! I’m looking at ring porn everyday because he wouldn’t let me see my ring even if I keep begging. He has it for about 2 months now and I think a proposal is coming in a few days!
Post # 5
I did! I picked it out, it was my dream ring, I knew when he had it in his possession, and I had an idea of when he would propose, all that waiting in between to finally have my ring on my hand drove me crazy!!!
Post # 6
I picked mine out online and I am absolutely frrreeaaaaking losing it! My S/O is in the Navy and comes home in 8 days! I keep thinking that maybe he will have it then and do it but I emailed the jeweler (without his knowledge…teeehee) and they said it would take 5 weeks to make.. which falls three days AFTER he arrives here..
So theres a LITTLEEEE chance I might get it soon but if not I’ll have to wait till our next visit. I don’t know if I would make it that long though. I’m having some major issues waiting! hahaha
-ancy lady over here.
Post # 7
- Wedding: March 2014 - A castle
@ohhbitty: I was batshit insane. He bought the ring in May and waited until July to propose.
Post # 8
I was a psychopath leading up to our engagement. I knew it was the right time, but I didn’t know for sure that he had bought the ring so I was in constant suspense, and he kept telling me to relax and be patient but I would just burst into tears without any provocation whatsoever. It was a stressful time. haha
Post # 9
My ring has been sitting in the closet for a few months and I can’t wait to wear it! I’m not going crazy (mainly because I’m the one who wants to wait a little bit longer to get engaged) but I know it’s coming up in the next 2-3 months and I definitely am excited to finally get to wear it!
Post # 10
Lol I had to wait 4…almost 5 months for my ring that I knew for a fact was in the apartment. honestly at that time I just RELAXED.. I knew he was going to do it and I wanted it to be a surprise. So stop trying to figure out when he will do it! You’ll ruin it for yourself!!Think of this time as the last few months you get to be his girlfriend and take a moment to appreciate it.
Post # 11
@ohhbitty: I knew exactly when my FI ordered the ring (nothing about my proposal was a surprise) so waiting the 1.5 weeks for it to arrive from Blue Nile was practically torture! I don’t know how people wait for months – I’d drive myself insane.
Hope you get yours soon!
Post # 12
So nice to know I’m not alone haha. We custom made my ering. I think it was ready in July! I have to wait until next year cause my beloved is superstitious about 2013 🙂 I love knowing its there and how personal it is, but my finger feels sad and lonely hehe.
Post # 13
Yup, definitely went a little crazy when I was waiting! Especially once I knew he had the ring!
Post # 14
Similar (but not really) sort of situation, but we are engaged with no ring yet and he is going to do the get down on one knee thing and give me the ring sometime before November 1st. The ring is IN THE SAFE.
I didn’t think I would be this excited (I mean, we are already planning a wedding) but I am just about to DIE from excitement. I can’t wait. I assumed I’d be more blase about it but omg. All the girly feelings.
Post # 15
@Laurenskii: +1 At this point, you know that you’ll be with him forever (hopefully). Being officially engaged is just a title!
I know the ring has been ordered and honestly, sometimes I do look down at my bare finger and imagine what it will look like when the time comes. But I’m not thinking at all about when the actual proposal will happen. We’ll see!
Post # 16
Crazy? Heck yeah I went there!! It was REALLY hard waiting. I’d sneak peeks and wear it when he was not home and take pics lol