(Closed) Bees, do you ever tempt guys & seek their attention?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll:
    Hell yeah... Always & I love it! : (13 votes)
    6 %
    Hmm...Sometimes : (54 votes)
    26 %
    Nope, never felt the urge or need to do so : (135 votes)
    64 %
    Other (please state) : (9 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 2
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2016

    No. 

    Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Hell nah

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee

    Nope. I’m engaged to marry the man I love. His attention is the only attention that matters. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    sunshineflowers:  Elaborate? Sure!

    Do I seek attention from men?

    Well, if I’m talking to someone I prefer it if at least some of their attention is focused on me, whether they are male or female. It’s only polite.

     

    Do I tempt men?

    What an odd phrase. Very Victorian. Makes me think of women ripping their bodices in the street to get the attention of whatever improbably drawn man is on the cover of the romance novel they are in. No, I don’t do that.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    No. What’s the point? It’s wasting their time and my time. 

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    When I was single and interested in someone… not so much now cause I have the perfect one (for me). Why cause drama by flirting with another guy? Waste of time

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    No, I’m naturally playful in my speech to both men and women when in a relaxed environment but not to the point where I’d be considered ‘tempting’ them. I don’t wear revealing clothing either, form-fitting yes, but revealing no.

    I think it would be useful for you to elaborate on your question because it’s difficult to understand what you’re asking.

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    You mean flirting? I flirt with my guy. Nobody else.

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

    sunshineflowers:  No! I’m with fi.  Dont need to I flirt.  Plus, you never know what creeps are out there. No thanks. I have seen one too many law and order svu episodes to pull that stunt. I didn’t even when I was single either. Never did not even for a free drink at the bar. Because they always expect something if they get you a drink. I’ve seen one too many guys buy a girl a drink and expect her to o go home with him. #notaboutthatlif

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    What am I reading? Flirting is usually required to get into a relationship. Once you’re there, stop flirting with men that aren’t your partner. *FIN*

    ETA: ah, OP, I remember you from this thread http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/marriage-is-hard-how/

    You need to grow up, get yourself out into the world and away from the isolation you’ve been raised in. Flirting is a natural part of life and socialization. You can’t “understand” relationship dynamics until you’ve been in a relationship yourself, and you can’t learn to flirt over a computer. The completely-out-of-touch-with-reality nature of your posts is kind of unsettling:/

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 10 months ago by  Hausfrau.

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