(Closed) Bees, do you ever tempt guys & seek their attention?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll:
    Hell yeah... Always & I love it! : (13 votes)
    6 %
    Hmm...Sometimes : (54 votes)
    26 %
    Nope, never felt the urge or need to do so : (135 votes)
    64 %
    Other (please state) : (9 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 92
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    2119 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    sunshineflowers:  when i was a teenager i was a little boy crazy so yeah i maybe cock teased a few guys. i grew up in a small town so i most likly knew them pretty well. i met my now husband at 19 so those are my only single days. im not that way now but have been called an attention seeker by a few even now. im just a loud talkitive person. i kind of come in and unintentionally comand the room. or at least thats what im told, my Darling Husband says some times its hard for him to get a word in because i always have to talk. but not specificlly to men. just people in general.

    Post # 93
    Member
    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

     

    sunshineflowers:  i dont think its right or wrong to flirt or not in a relationship. its all about boundaries you and your SO set from the beginning i think. if i sense im flirting and the guy thinks im single i tell him my relationship status so that he doesnt get confused

    Post # 94
    Member
    962 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2016 - San Clemente Church, Italy

    No, I flirt like mad with my Fiance, though. When I was in my early 20’s I thought it was cute. But as I became a grown woman, I realized I don’t need to use my sexuality or looks to get the kind of attention that I really value. I want my clients or judges to listen because I’m knowledgeable and persuasive, not because of my nice rack. I want friends and lovers to notice my compassion, my wit and my strength, so that’s what I show instead. 

    I fully respect how others choose to navigate their lives, but this is how I choose to navigate my own. I’m not suggesting girls in their early 20’s aren’t “grown women”, I just know that I wasn’t.

    Post # 95
    Hostess
    9688 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

    sunshineflowers:  Single days? Yes. Now? Absolutely not. That would bring nothing but trouble. 

    Post # 96
    Member
    893 posts
    Busy bee

    Yeah, I like the attention and I own up to it too. I don’t wear particularly provocative clothing or do things that can be considered seductive, but it’s easy to casually say something that could be interpreted as flirtatious and as far as noticing you, guys do so pretty much automatically. Even at work, I’ve had several co-workers, male and female, tell me, pretty casually, that my butt is really nice. The reality is that a lot of men are suckers and they are also clueless so they might notice you “trying” but also not understand that you are flirting with them.

    Post # 97
    Member
    860 posts
    Busy bee

    sunshineflowers:  Technically it’s polyamory since I’m only married to one partner (and of course, I can only be legally married to one partner). I did an ask me anything thread about it a year or so ago if you’d like to search for it, or you can PM me. I don’t want to thread jack ๐Ÿ™‚

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