(Closed) Bees, I am baby crazy. I need help!

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

there are many young moms who had fertility issues on the TTC boards. You might even be able to start your own thread there or move this one there. I think it makes sense you feeling this way but you are also so close that you should hold out and wait. in the interim you can do alot to learn about your fertility now before trying. you can get books like what to expect before youre expecting, taking charge of your fertility, and join fertility friend. you can start monitoring your diet and just doing everything you can to get yourself ready and healthy for pregnancy. taking prenatal vitamins up to a year in advance is supposed to be very beneficial. It can prevent birth defects and it helps babies implant and grow right. if you are really neurotic like me you can even get some medical testing done in advance. i am 35 and got pregnant at 34 but i had to wait like 6 months to start trying and i used that time to get healthy and educated. make sure you also talk with your fiance alot and try to set up a reasonable time line and get your priorites and finances in order. i think it helps to be proactive when you know you have to wait. that way you wont just feel like you are wasting time but feathering your nest. best of luck to you darling.

Post # 4
66 posts
Worker bee

I think thats a question you would want to ask you fiance 🙂 If he is on board ( and you guys are financially & emotionally prepared) with having a baby pre -wedding or being pregnant during it or shortly after, than the sky is the limit!

Also, if your not wedding crazy, perhaps eloping would be a good idea! You may be able to save money towards your future child(ren).

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