(Closed) Bees… I am over thinking things? (mainly vent/ part advice seeking)

posted 6 years ago in August 2013
  • poll: Should I...
    Chill out, Christmas is only round the corner, there is time. : (8 votes)
    53 %
    Send out ALL STDs and invites soon : (7 votes)
    47 %
    Send invites to Wedding participants only. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1030 posts
    Bumble bee

    I would recommend sending everything out early – but that’s me. I get crazy anxious over these things and would rather people just know ASAP.

    My wedding is in September 2013 and I’ll be getting our Save The Dates out as soon as we get our engagement pics done. But I can’t just sit around…

    I’m sure everything will work out for you – it’s good that the church are wanting to change their date! 🙂

    Post # 4
    425 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I am sorry to hear all of that. I would try to stay positive, it seems like the church is trying to change their weekend so maybe its still possible to have it in your church. Don’t completely stress yourself out or make changes until they get back to you. And as for the friend, I mean that unfortunately happens. Its impossible to pick a day that works for absolutely everyone so I am sure it will still be an amazing day! Once you finalize everything with the church, I would definitely send out a save the date this way everyone who will be invited will know this is your date! Good Luck and Keep us posted!

    Post # 6
    1686 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Don’t worry. You’ll get it figured out. Maybe the conflict with the church date and the MC’s schedule is the universe’s way of telling you something. Can you find out what other dates your photographer has available and start trying to make a back up plan that will get you your church, your MC, and your photographer?

    Post # 9
    1217 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Hang in there chica! Your wedding is almost a year away! I think it’s kind to ask people to be a part of your wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.) as far in advance as you can because they may have costs associated with the wedding (travel, attire, etc.) that they need to save money for – but for the rest of your guests, I’m glad you’re waiting until December. Honestly, I don’t even have a 2013 calendar yet, so if I were a guest I would have a hard time planning this far in advance! 😉

    Glad your church was able to rearrange their calendar! If some people do fall through closer to the date, hang in there – it WILL be okay I promise 🙂 We’re a little over a month from our wedding, a few things have fallen through the cracks, but at this point we are just so excited to be married. Sounds like you’re totally on top of things if you’re booking a year out, so I am sure everything will work out great! Happy planning!

    Post # 10
    11234 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013


    No worries, I sent my Save-The-Date Cards out last month (later than planned, but whatever) and have basically everything else done. 

    Post # 11
    6745 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @charlii.rouge:  Yay!  Definitely now that everything has been finalized, you should finalize all your vendors and your bridal party.  There’s no such thing as telling people too early on, unless of course nothing is definite.  So go ahead and get those invites out for the bridal party and vendors and get on those STDs!  You only have 8 months left!

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