- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I left my grandmothers house crying my eyes out to my Fiance in front of my brother the whole drive home Saturday night… I was heart broken and embarassed. My grandmother had me print out all the info on the caterer of my choice (which was just the cheapest choice in the town of my venue). She then asked us over to talk about the catering saying she was going to help out by paying for the food. She then asked me to pull the site up online when we got there and she loved their pictures and prices saying they were great because she knows how tough catering can be (she used to own a restaurant). Then my brother started asking questions and she started insulting me right in front of my face saying “I want all this stuff” “I need all these unimportant things that cost sooo much” and so on… OKAY she suggested I find this caterer so she can look over it. It’s the cheapest one I’ve seen and 5 minutes before she said the prices were great! I was so hurt and annoyed she lead me to believe she would help only to insult me and make me feel like I was telling her she needed to do this for me. (WHICH I DIDN’T). My Fiance told me to calm down and he said he never thought she’d end up helping anyway but I cried harder because I just don’t know how were going to even have food at this point.
Today she calls (after not talking since we left Saturday and we usually talk twice a day). She said she wanted to know my final choices on the catering… WHAT!? Then she said she wants to see the venue first before booking a caterer… DOUBLE WHAT?? So now she’s interested again? I am so confused and don’t know what to think or do anymore… my family is making my brain hurt. ='(