- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
okay so let me just give a little break down,
me and my fiancee have been dating for 5 years. weve been living with each for 3 years. my fiancee just proposed to me a day before my birthday. no words could describe the feeling. i am the happiest woman in the world. i am permantely on cloud 9!
the only thing is its been about 2 weeks since we`ve been engaged and we have only told friends b/c we want to tell our family in person.
my Fiance asked my grandfather and my mom for there blessing. but hasent asked my dad yet. he was so excitied that he proposed before he asked my dad(my dad left the country 3 days before he proposed) my Fiance is very traditonal and wants to ask my dad before we tell him were engaged. me and my father were never close when i was growing up. he was bascially out of my life for a while and we reunited.
me and my Fiance are attending my cousins wedding on saturday and im seeing all my family on my dads side. my Fiance said it would be best if we not said anything to anyone at the wedding b/c its someone else special day. but im bursting at the sems i cant hold it in anymore!
in all honesty b/c me and my father were never close it doesnt matter if her asks him or not, i know thats blunt, but its the truth. my grnadfather is the one that raised me and hes 93 and the fact that my Fiance asked him was perfect. but my Fiance is set on asking my dad before we mention the actually engagement.
i guess this is just a vent and not really advice. lol any encouraging words while i wait?
p.s were going to be telling my family the day after the wedding!