(Closed) Bees, I need your help to get over the little stuff. LONG

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

My first thought was, “Oh hell NO she didn’t!” Seriously, who does this? Plans a house closing the DAY OF THE WEDDING? Starts tearing down stuff? That girl needs help or something. Obviously she can’t handle a day that isn’t all about her. Almost sounds like she maybe didn’t get the wedding that she wanted and felt that she needed to ruin yours. 

I absolutely do not blame you for the way you’re feeling. I would probably say something to her because, really, who does that?

Post # 4
599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh that sounds just horrible, what a brat of a SIL. It depends whether you want to keep some kind of relationship with her, if you do I would probably suggest you talk to her about it. If you don’t, I would still tell her you’re not happy and just back off. That’s just me and what I would do.

Sorry to hear that your day wasn’t how you wanted it, some people are just so selfish….(((hugs)))

Post # 5
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012


I am so sorry about your rude, rude, rude SIL……..

Did you confront her?

What happened to the gifts she took?

What is your Darling Husband saying about this?

Maybe he could handle it since it is his sister?

Post # 6
6825 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

It sucks she did all that, however the day has come and gone, let it go and enjoy your newlywed status with your Darling Husband

Post # 8
2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MrsMagnus:  I am so sorry! I 100% know how it feels to have  a manipulative, attention stealing SIL.

I wouldn’t say anything….I get what you’re syaing that if you don’t it feels like she’s “getting away” with it. But trust me, everyone knows. People aren’t blind, and her family probably knows better than anythign that this is how she is. She wants attention,and if you confront her, she can play the victim…you’d be totally playing into her hand.

When someone wants attention, the best thing to do to “get back” at them is to not give it to them.

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