(Closed) Bees…I'm scared

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee

You need to delete and remove anything associated with this person. When you find someone you truly love, there is no comparison. I promise. 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

It may not feel like it now, but you will love again. You’ll love better and bigger.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

We all feel that same way after being broken hearted. But you do get over it. You do move forward. Definitely. And you will certainly love again. Look after yourself.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

This was always my biggest fear- that I would be one of those women who would be married and still not over someone else; the fear turned out to be unfounded.  Give yourself a chance to heal, and only start dating again when you are ready.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper

It takes time. It is important in life to have loss. You will love again and you will love deeper from your experience 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

lovehearts123:  Time and distance.  You aren’t ready now, but you will be.

Post # 8
Hostess
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I’ve felt the same way. Even to a degree in a new relationship, then one day it dawned on me how the new guy was better in so many ways than the old guy and how lucky I was to have moved onward and upward and that I was really lucky and those fears, while totally normal, were unfounded. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

How old are you? That seems like an immature statement.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

lovehearts123:  I felt that way for over twenty years. I ended up marrying my ex husband because I thought I would never fall in love again. We dated in college so I was in my late teens. I am now divorced but getting ready to be married again in a couple months to the love of my life. My FH is the love of my life. I thought I’d never find someone that could even compare to my ex-boyfriend But I have. I am so happy. 

so don’t think you’ll never find someone again. You will. 

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

lovehearts123:  things will get better. Out of the sadness will come hope. And out of hope will come strength. Give it time.  I promise you. It will get better and you will love and feel love again. Big hugs. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

After my first boyfriend broke up with me (the one I dated for only two months) I was convinced that I would never love someone that deeply ever again. Three years later my fiance came along and proved me so wrong. I know how awful it feels but please give yourself time to heal. You only think you want him back because you’re not used to being by yourself. You’re going to realize in due time how much better off you are without someone toxic in your life. Stay strong. 

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