(Closed) Bees Who Cant Post Their Dress – Lurking FIs!

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
3011 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I may have a problem because J does know of the site and has logged on a few times.  He’s also always peeking over to see what I’m discussing.  

Post # 4
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I was worried about that too – I finally told him, “Look, I don’t have anything to hide, but I’m almost scared to post on here now, because I know you’ll read everything! I’m most afraid of posting pics of my dress, because you don’t want to see it.”

He promised to leave WB alone unless I sent him links – and then he only looked at exactly what I was showing him. 🙂

Maybe telling your guy would help?

Post # 5
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I cant post my dress, but not because Fiance Is a lurker but just cos I dont want anyone else that I know stumbling upon a picture of me in a wedding dress. Even when the face is blocked out, you are still recognisable to people who know you.

Post # 6
689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

One night Fiance and I both were googling DIY uplighting….long story short, he was one step behind me and found a WB page I’d just commented on. As he was reading the post, I recognized it was the one I’d just commented on. I told him to get off immediately b/c I was had just posted. He knows I’m on here, but I never told him my username b/c I didn’t want him to know who was me. This was a few weeks ago. My dress is supposed to get here tomorrow and I joked with him about what if I left it at the house for a few days would he look and he says no. He says I wouldn’t look b/c #1 he wants to be surprised and #2 he knew my WB username and hasn’t looked (he saw it that night before I had a chance to tell him to get off…the last person who posted was from SC so he figured that as me).


All that to say…maybe if you tell him, he won’t look!

Post # 8
5147 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My fiance doesn’t lurk the ‘Bee.

But he’s already seen the dress.  But the model picture and on me.

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