Bees Who Live 45+ Mins Away From Family; Is it hard maintaining relationships?

posted 4 months ago in Relationships
Post # 16
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1452 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

It takes me 45 minutes to get home from work some days, so that doesn’t feel like far away from family at all! If it’s the perfect house for you, you should go for it!

Post # 17
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511 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think I have commented on one your posts before…this sounds like a really hard call.  If I was in your situation, I would choose to be closer to family.  I say this with having a toddler at home.  Pre kids, I would have picked the 45 minute option, but I SO appreciate being 10 minutes from in laws and 25 from my parents.  It is so helpful.  But I guess it depends on how much they would want to help (or how much help you desire). I don’t think either option is going to be bad…it just depends on what is the most important to you (I know that help with kids isn’t your only factor, lol…this perspective is coming from a tired mom)! 

Post # 18
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866 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I live in Southern California were 45 minutes can equal 14 mile ride to the next town in traffic or 37 miles with no traffic. So time and distance don’t mean anything but a ride. My house to the beach should take 45 minutes (I wish) but in reality I know I have to dedicate less than two hours to get there one way or another. But I still go it doesn’t stop me because I want to be there lol. If gas money miles time doesn’t matter than let your man get his dream land. 

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