- 6 years ago
Im just trying to figure out if this is just us or if more people have gone through this whole nonsence we are going through at the moment becuase I feel like running away from everything at the moment.
We got married at the courthouse in february while Darling Husband was home from deployment. We didn’t hide anything from anyone, our family all knows and they are still encouraging us to go ahead with the wedding ceremony when everyone can join us this summer. That is besides the point. We have been on and off for three years, we certainly know eachother plenty well and have been through a number of transfers, deployments, ups, downs and what have you. But now something is different. I feel like before we got married everything was fun and laid back and if something didin’t work we laughed about it and worked something out that did work. Now that he is home and here for good every small little miniscule thing has become a huge freaking deal. Example… I was told on friday that I was on day shift this week, I get to work on Tuesday and I was put on nights, so I go home and do laundry until I have to go back to work, but becuase I didn’t know ahead of time and let him know that I had been switched the second I knew (he was out hunting) it was a huge blow up fight… There was really not much I could have done, but it is besides the point. We fought one time in the three years of being together prior to getting married and now we have at least two big fights a week, what gives, I have tried to talk to him about it but his temper has been so short lately I feel like anything I say slightly off what he feels is liable to cause WWIII
is this a newly wed thing? is this a home from military thing? I feel like we have gone through small spells like this before, but nothing lasting this long, this has been 2 months of grumpyness and I am totally over it.