- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
ahhhh! This wedding planning is putting me on a emotional rollercoaster! Thank God for this site!! Anywho ladies…..
So me and my best friend use to be together every moment of everyday. We started being that way about 6 years ago. Well she has always been very over weight and never could find a guy worthy of her time. Ive always thought she had the prettiest face and wished men saw her for what she was….or what I thought she was.
She never had really good relationships. Her last one ended horribly and I dont know why she was ever in it for so long. Well after about 2 years of mine and my Fiance relationship, we found out we were having a baby. Unexpected? ABSOLUTELY! But at the same time we felt more blessed then anything. After she found out I was prego she really ditched me. She never called, would go out with all of our friends and exclude me and would just really hurt my feelings. I never knew why she did that. Well I had my son 2 hrs away from our home due to complications and on the day he was born she drove down to the hospital to surprise me before his birth. I felt like I had by best friend back…..yeah right. After he was born, the excluding resumed.
About a year later when I would talk to her she would tell me about the lasted guy that she had met on the internet or where ever she could catch him. They would last about a month then something would happen. Well this past june at the beginning of her current relationship she had Gastric Bypass surgery. Honestly I thought it was totally uncalled for and was a desperate plea to find a guy that would stay with her. Any guy. She even stopped breathing on the operating table twice. Even though I didnt agree I supported her but was so scared for her at the same time.
About 6 months later she found out shes pregnant with her boyfriend of about 7 months and they are getting married next month. I told her a baby changes EVERYTHING and you really need to know your spouse through and through to raise a child with them….let alone know them for at least a year before getting married! She doesnt really care. She just knows shes getting married and having a baby. Alot of her family are my friends on Facebook and all I hear on there is how excited they are that shes getting married and having a baby. Its so annoying because its like “doesnt ANYONE see theres no morals in this situation?!?!?!?!” I already pulled out of being in her wedding and she is not in mine. We are alright with eachother but dont talk that much. I honestly dont even want to go to her wedding. But I know she would be ticked if I didnt. And why should I support her pregnancy when she ditched me during mine?? ahhh this all just bugs me so much!!!!!