(Closed) Being introduced as his fiancee already :D /my friend calling my ring fake :S

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Ugh, I’d be annoyed too. I’m sorry!!! But congrats on being called fiancee already ๐Ÿ™‚ It feels good, doesn’t it?

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

What a nasty thing to say!  I can’t imagine what kind of friend would do that…next time she feels the need to make that distinction, which is unnecessary and rude, I would feel the need to leave.

Post # 5
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3668 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Wow, that is so rude! It’s pretty sad that the only way for her to feel good about her ring is to put yours down.

Yay for being embraced by your new family! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Miss Circe:  I hate friends like this… 

Post # 7
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Ugh, that really sucks, I’m sorry she is doing that!

So excited for you proposal though! It’s so great that his family has already accepted you as part of their family!

Post # 8
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3156 posts
Sugar bee

If she keeps it up, I would just say something like “well I thought is was really stupid to buy the same exact thing for twice as much and ruin the environment in the process”. 

Post # 13
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370 posts
Helper bee

@fvsoccer:  This! On so many levels, this. Better than my response of punching her in the face.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Miss Circe:  Hey – explain to hers that if yours is indeed lab made, that it’s most likely more socially responsible than your friend’s mined one. I personally prefer most lab-created bling because the practices of manufacturing and selling them tend to be more ethical. But that’s just me. I like being able to sleep at night knowing that my stuff is ethically sourced, better for the environment and conflict free. Chemically, it’s exactly the same thing. 

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper

Some people really don’t like synthetic gemstones, but it’s rude of her to keep mentioning it. I don’t go out of my way to criticize my friends’ choices in front of others. If she does it again I’d suggest telling her it bothers you because it seems like she’s putting down your ring with what she’s saying, and why would a good friend do that?

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