(Closed) being on top

posted 1 month ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
Member
400 posts
Helper bee

Squatting is exhausting. Definitely fun for a change of pace/depth, but not a position I would climax in. I think there should be a bit of give and take with your partner – maybe something feels better for him, but other things feel better for you (i.e. my partner likes when I am leaning back on my hands as he gets a better view of my chest, I like leaning forward because I feel like I have more control over tempo. We do both). I usually start slow, get faster, slow down again, speed up. Once I feel really into it, I will have my partner touch my clit. Sends me over the edge in about ten seconds.

Post # 4
Member
1358 posts
Bumble bee

I don’t org from top.. you can do Manny variations  tho… we are very acrobatic with our lovemaking. Lol 

Just move how it feels good. More of a sliding or grinding  rather than pumping… 

 

You can also straddle forward or reverse or even sideways while he’s on a bed, couch, chair… 

Post # 6
Member
1358 posts
Bumble bee

Just takes practice. Communicate to each other when it’s esp good, be creative with angles, speeds, positions… 

Post # 7
Member
167 posts
Blushing bee

Before I had my two kiddos being on top was my favorite. Now I feel so stiff and awkward lol. I climax everytime we do doggy style. Another fun one is reverse cowgirl(just looked up sex positions to get the names right!) Try different things and have fun!

Post # 8
Member
1101 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

After 4 years, this is still a problem?

🤔

Post # 10
Member
283 posts
Helper bee

chitownyogini :  How is that helpful?

OP I find being on top feels best for me when I am leaned forward, almost parallel to my husband. I havent ever found my gspot that I know of, but it puts pressure on my clit which feels good.

My husband likes the visual of me upright or slightly leaned back so we do that also. But we sometimes alternate or I get mine first and then sit up for him to finish

Post # 12
Member
8126 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

bethany22 :  knees all the way – who has the stamina to squat that long?? Definitely experiment with leaning forward or back too. Just straight up and down isn’t very interesting!

Post # 13
Member
283 posts
Helper bee

bethany22 :  Ok so, I can only speak for myself here but maybe this will help you.

If my mind is not right – ie: focused on sex, the feelings and sensations – there is NO position I will cum in. Now, I also need the right angles for me to get pleasure but its a combination of mind + physical sensation.

It is hard for me to cum from missionary. Sometimes it happens but not as consistently. Usually when he has my legs on his shoulders and im more doubled over OR when I sort of lift my hips up.

So perhaps work on the mental and physical. Sounds like your husband also could try a little harder to learn how to please you

 

Post # 15
Member
1101 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

mg8301 :  because OPs post history is only soliciting sexual information from other Bees and I’ve seen threads like this before been shut down as they ramp up with explicit content. Just something to consider before posting intimate advice on a forum. 

The topic ‘being on top’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors