Being paranoid or is there something up here…

posted 2 weeks ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

A 40 year old man was out until 2 AM with a teenage girl…alone? Who does driving lessons that late? 

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris

I think this sounds very sketchy. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

This is not a good look for him, regardless. What kind of idiot spends time with a teenage girl at 2am, especially in the current climate.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

Meeting a woman 9pm-2am on a Sunday night? Fishy.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeahhhh no. Not right. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Totally suspicious! I’d tell him that if he wants to give her free driving lessons, that’s fine, but it needs to be during the day. Blame it on the current climate, as a PP mentioned. He shouldn’t be giving anyone the idea that something isn’t right between them.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

Who takes driving lessons at night? I’m seriously asking. Is that a thing?

He may not have mentioned it Bc he knows it sounds super sketch and then upon reflection realized he really needed to mention it precisely Bc it sounds super sketch. I would say that it was a very bad judgement call on his part, even assuming that everything was as he claims.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Wtf… that’s wrong on a whole lot of levels.

Who takes driving lessons in the dead of night anyway…?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

stressedlady :  Whether he actually cheated or not I have no idea. But what he did does not sound right and is fishy. I mean… who does driving lessons with a teenager till 2am!? And a bit weird he didn’t at least mention it when he got home. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

If it were me, I would talk to him about it. I’d watch his reactions and from there judge whether he is lying. 

If he seems to be genuine, inform him its strange and that you would rather he didnt do it again. If he does it again, then it calls for a much more serious conversation.

Maybe he was acting weird as he found it weird himself that she came out so late… teenage girls do all sorts of strange things and there could be a myriad of reasons she went out of the house late at night Boredom, fight with the parents, maybe she has a crush on him and knew he would be there. This may have led to her finding some reason he would let her stay as it is late for her to be out. 

If this is the first instance, I would give him the benefit of the doubt. Could just be one of those weird occasions in life where everything looks bad but it isnt.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I can’t say whether he cheated or not; from what you described it sounds like what he “confessed to” was both odd and wrong either way to be out with a teen that late… I don’t understand it.

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