Being petty. MOH wants different shoes. Pic!

posted 4 months ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 46
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

Choice C is the best looking shoes out of all 3 options and I wear platform heels all the time because they are more comfortable and look hot. Option A looks a little grandma-ish to me and option B would have me crying in pain if I wore them for more than a hour. 

My opinion is to let Maid/Matron of Honor wear whatever shoe she wants. Now that I think back to it, I didnt even tell my Maid/Matron of Honor what shoes to wear lol. I dont think anyone would care or notice and tbh I cant even recall what shoes she wore which means is not an important detail on your wedding day. 

Post # 47
6179 posts
Bee Keeper

I agree that she should have said something earlier but I’d let it go.  That’s not worth the stress.  This coming from a bride that worried about dress colors so close you had to stare at it and maybe you could see the slight difference.  It’s not worth it.  Just let it go. Trust me.  

Post # 48
6179 posts
Bee Keeper

Ok I missed the part where they were already bought.  Did you already order and buy everyone’s shoes?

Post # 49
1047 posts
Bumble bee

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@calireaming112:  yes you’re being petty. No one is going to be looking at their shoes. If they’re going to belong to her and she’s going to be buying them, let her get the ones she wants. They all look the same to me. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Personally I like when they all have their own flare to the ensemble. 

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