(Closed) being thoughtless i offended fi about our sex life!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Ooo that was clearly a joke though, and he was asking for it with his joking about wanting multiple wives.  Don’t beat yourself up about it!!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@newname_99:  I know how you feel because i have went through that with my Fiance.  My drive is VERY  high and he knows how i am.  I mentioned something silly like that one day when we were watching something and he looked same way 🙁 but i apologized and told him it was meant as a joke .  He got over it and we moved on because we are both great with what we have.  I’m sure he won’t dwell on it long, just let him know you love  what you and him have together and you were just joking with him

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

He is not upset with you, or at least he shouldnt be. Its not a secret that you have different sex drives. He probably just wishes things were different.

I could imagine my husband saying what you did to me and my reaction would to be to feel a little bad that I couldnt be more sexually active. Maybe even try for the next couple of weeks to spice it up.   

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Actually when I first read what you said to your man, I didn’t read it as an insult..!  I was taking it to mean that you’re the super horny one and that he’s not necessarily the one to blame haha! 😉  Don’t feel so bad – I’ve said much worse.. and hey, we’re still very much together.  If you’re gonna spend a lifetime with one another, you might as well get used to being super honest with one another. 

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