(Closed) Best friend – am I expecting too much? (TL;DR -apologies for the length!)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’ve had similar issues with one of my good friends as well. She could never find time to answer my calls or get in touch with me, but God forbid I don’t answer her phone calls.

As far as the bad news goes, some people just don’t know what to say. They may think you’re tired of hearing the same old things over and over or maybe she’s got things going on in her life too? I’m guessing that you ask her how she’s doing as well, but when I’m bummed out about stuff, I find that I don’t really get excited for friends or want to talk to them. I don’t think you’re asking too much of her to at least return your calls or messages, but I would send her a message telling her that you miss talking to her and that you’re worried that she isn’t keeping in touch with you, and that if she has anything going on that she could talk to you about it.

Other than that, I don’t know.

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