(Closed) Best Friend Cancellation 2 Weeks Before Wedding

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

It hurts when someone is not the friend you thought they were.  I am sorry for you, but I would just offer the apartment again, and say, “I hope you can come.  It’s up to you!”   Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, by the way!  =)

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Imam very sorry she is acting like this. You are right, time to let go.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Gee I really hates when that happens, I really do – it’s such a let down. I’m so sorry and it is horribly unfair. Try to let it go and focus on your upcoming wedding! Two weeks will fly by!

Post # 5
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556 posts
Busy bee

Sorry that you are hurt. I did not feel that way about no shows at my wedding, there was one woman who cancelled at the last minute and I am pretty sure she did it on purpose over something political (meaning politics!), but I hadn’t known her for as long so though I didn’t appreciate it, it is not the same as your situation where you have more history. Try not to let it upset you.

Post # 6
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2250 posts
Buzzing bee

kmonster:  I think it’s time to let this girl go. She’s slapped you pretty good this time, and clearly doesn’t value you as much as you value her. Two weeks before your wedding she flakes? No. That’s not friend-like behavior.

Unfortunately I’ve seen that weddings bring the worst out in people, or the best. But, I kind of view it as a good thing, because if my former bridesmaid hadn’t been so blatantly shitty to me and everyone around her, I might have actually kept her selfish ass around and witnessed as a bored bridesmaid was on her phone half the day.

I don’t think I’d have it in me to remain “friends” with someone who insulted me so badly 2 weeks before my wedding.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

This thread is 3 years old people.

 

 Given that, , the OP has probably come to terms with what happened.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

justwondering2015:  lareolin:  The post is three years old…I thing she’s probabsly gotten over it by now! How do you even find a post that old?!

 

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