(Closed) BEST FRIEND ENGAGEMENT DRAMA!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

She is NOT your friend. What a toxic relationship. She is not worth your time!!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

@Soon2bMrsMay:  I have to agree with PP’s. This girl sounds like she has a lot of issues with how her life is going right now, and because yours is going well, she is taking her disappointments out on you. I would definitely give yourself some space from her. You are just hurting yourself everytime you put yourself into a position to be yelled at by her. I’m so sorry that your best friend has turned into this person, but it’s healthiest if you stop this friendship now until she gets her act together.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Aren’t you also having similar issues with your sister?  It sounds like you might need to take a step back from these relationships and surround yourself with people who will be happy for you and don’t feel the need to compete…

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I don’t think she sounds like much of a friend at all. I would take a break form talking to her or at least about wedding stuff and see if she comes around. I am guessing she is more unhappy with her own life then she is willing to admit, and that isn’t something you can change.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Friends are supposed to make our lives better. Why would you keep this person in your life? Time to make some new friends.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Soon2bMrsMay:  Oh my gosh.  I’m stunned.  I’m normally a peace maker and would suggest ways to work it out, but I agree with love108–she isn’t worth a single second of your time! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Ummm am I missing something? Why is she still your friend?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

PS…I want to see your bling!!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

She sounds mentally unstable.  What adult behaves like that?  She threw a tantrum like a child and for no good reason.  I agree with what other PPs have said here.  She sounds toxic and you should probably end the friendship, then surround yourself with positive people who are happy for you.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

She’s not your friend. You need to cut that relationship she sounds psychotic…

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

Oh my goodness.  Please cut her out of your life!  What a horrible, toxic person.  Even when I get jealous of people, I never show it.  I always put on a big smile and congratulate/praise them.  I might vent to my Fiance, but that’s as far as it goes.  Throwing tantrums and kicking peoples’ mailboxes is a really juvenile way of handling things.  She needs to get a life.  She needs to dump the child she’s with if she wants to have a successful relationship. 

Post # 13
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1231 posts
Bumble bee

I hate to say that people are jealous…but….she has serious case of jealousitis. That isn’t a good friendship. It shouldn’t be a contest and when it becomes a constant one, you should back away. She picked a toad that will never change into a prince and she knows she won’t have what you have. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2007

She is NOT a friend…why do you even put up with it?  She is obviously jealous of you and acting as a complete biotch about it.  If she’s unhappy about her life, then it’s up to her to get on her butt and fix it instead of taking it out on you.  I would not be friends with her again if I were you. 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I just read your other post about your sister…the stories are almost exactly the same- seems you attract a lot of jealous people in your life. So you have two options, cut them off or deal. Anyway, let’s see the ring!

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