posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 30
2386 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow with friends like that I’d hate to meet your enemies!

You don’t don’t don’t need this girl in your life. Please for your own sanity, try and distance yourself from her until things calm down. Now you need to be happy in the fact that you are engaged to someone you love and wedding planning should be exciting!

Also, I agree with the PPs…ring pics to cheer this thread up!! =)

Post # 31
1886 posts
Buzzing bee

you need to kick this girl out of your life for good

Post # 32
231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree with PP’s, sounds like this girl isn’t much of a friend at all. I would let her go and get on with your life. It’s not your fault she has a crappy boyfriend/fiance if she cannot be happy for you than she needs to go. Sounds like she cannot be happy for others if she feels things are so wrong in her own life, she cannot handle other people being on top. Such a BRAT!!!!

Post # 33
649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Trust me, it’s possible to have 2 people that toxic and jealous of your life….I am in that boat with my sister and my mother…..you should hear some of the things that have been said to me/about me…..and unfortunately it is because my life is so good (I have worked very hard for what I have and am STILL working hard to keep it….)but all they see is the nice stuff I have and can’t handle that I have what they don’t…..unfortunately I’m not going to stop having nice stuff just because they can’t handle seeing it…(and no, I don’t rub it in their face…)


so I get what the OP is saying…..and it sucks…I’ve learned to move on from friends like that…I don’t need that in my life….family is a whole other matter….

Post # 34
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Soon2bMrsMay:  Wow, that’s awful.  I’m sorry you had to go through that.  Like the PPs, I think she has issues.  She sounds like the type who is only happy when other people aren’t.  Sad to say, but I honestly think you should cut off your friendship with her.  What I learned from my experience is that no matter how long you’ve know someone, you have to let go if you know it’s a negative friendship.  We’re not getting any younger and we don’t need that kind of negativity around us.  We all have enough to deal with as it is.

Post # 35
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I didn’t read the other posts, but to me it seems that she is jealous that your life is coming together and hers is not. SHe doesn’t seem like a “friend” to me. I would talk to her and tell her that is things don’t change, you need her out of your life.

The topic ‘BEST FRIEND ENGAGEMENT DRAMA!’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors