- 5 years ago
So, my wedding’s in 2 weeks. One of my attendants will be a male friend, one of my best friends from high school. We rarely see each other anymore, so I was really excited to have him there. I invited him and his partner, and he told me that his partner wasn’t able to come.
He does know me (obviously) and is also old friends with my other attendant.
Well, today he tells me out of the blue that he’s bringing a “plus one”, some friend of his that I’ve never even met. Not his significant other. And I feel really hurt. Hurt that he needs to bring some random person to my wedding to make it fun? Hurt that now it will be awkward to have him hang out with me getting ready or doing other stuff, leaving his friend out? Hurt that he didn’t even ask if it was OK?
(Also, of course, there’s the fact that Random Friend was NOT INVITED. He and his partner were invited. You can’t just sub in whoever you want. But anyway)
Shouid I say anything? I’ve been friends with him for over 10 years. I think we can be honest with each other, but I don’t know what to say… should I just suck it up and be glad he’s coming?