Post # 1
Ok my fiance’s best man has previously dated one of my bridesmaids. They are actually the reason we got together. They kind of set us up. They dated for about 2 years and it was a very bad relationship with a lot of drama! His best man is a player and the polar opposite of my fiance. She has recently got married and had a baby. When we went and visited her about a few months ago all she could talk about was seeing him. She said that it was probably not a good idea for her to be drunk around him (insinuating that she would possible do something with him. This is not the first time I have heard this comment. Any suggestions on how to handle this situation and prevent a potential infidelity at my wedding? Btw, I think this is crazy that I am asking this! I shouldn’t to worry about my married bridesmaid sleeping with the best man. <!–Session data–><!–Session data–>
Post # 3
Eek! I agree with you! I think it’s a little odd that she’s married with a child and thinking of ways to avoid doing inappropriate things with your FH’s best man. Will her husband be there? If not, I would probably appoint my Maid/Matron of Honor or some other trusted Bridesmaid or Best Man to keep an eye on her (and him) on the sly. Haha, I’m going to admit, this is a little weird. But you definitely wouldn’t want something like this ruining your day!
Post # 4
lol this is a tricky situation. Honestly though, your Bridesmaid or Best Man and the BestM are grown ups and really should be held accountable for their own actions. If you feel you need to say something to her, I would do so in private before the wedding… letting her know how lucky she is to have such a great family & that it hurts to hear her make comments about BestM.
On the actually day though, I wouldn’t bother myself with their drama. People do stupid things … hopefuly she doesn’t but it’s not really your problem on your wedding day.
Post # 5
Yea, this is kind of what I was thinking too. I was thinking that they are adults and should be held accountable for their actions but in the same sense, I would hate for it to happen on my time. I have already told my step-mom about it and she said she would be more than happy to keep an eye on it and just kind of watch for what is going on. I thought it was weird that a few weeks ago she said her husband was going to be there and now she’s saying that he “may not be able to come.” This worries me a little but I guess I’m just going to have to let it go. I just hate it because she has a wonderful husband and family and I would hate for anything like that to happen. That would be terrible for a marriage to dissolve at the same place one is being created.