(Closed) Best man and bridesmaid previously dated

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Eek!  I agree with you!  I think it’s a little odd that she’s married with a child and thinking of ways to avoid doing inappropriate things with your FH’s best man.  Will her husband be there?  If not, I would probably appoint my Maid/Matron of Honor or some other trusted Bridesmaid or Best Man to keep an eye on her (and him) on the sly.  Haha, I’m going to admit, this is a little weird.  But you definitely wouldn’t want something like this ruining your day!

Post # 4
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

lol this is a tricky situation. Honestly though, your Bridesmaid or Best Man and the BestM are grown ups and really should be held accountable for their own actions. If you feel you need to say something to her, I would do so in private before the wedding… letting her know how lucky she is to have such a great family & that it hurts to hear her make comments about BestM.

On the actually day though, I wouldn’t bother myself with their drama. People do stupid things … hopefuly she doesn’t but it’s not really your problem on your wedding day.

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