(Closed) DH not happy with his BM!!

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

Talk to him about it, tell him how you guys feel about his actions of late and you are re-considering getting another person because you feel he is too busy with his life and girlfriend for the job. You want someone reliable and obviously he is not reliable.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t get the correlation between the title of your post and the actual post. Nothing in your post indicates that the couple are jealous?

When they didn;t RSVP for the engagement party did your Fiance call his Bridesmaid or Best Man to ask if he was coming or if he even received the invite? If you guys didn;t follow up maybe the Bridesmaid or Best Man found out about the party (since he thinks wasn’t invited) and planned his own party and has not said anything to you guys about the wedding since due to being upset about not being invited!

Your FI’s first mistake was to not ask his closet friend to be his Bridesmaid or Best Man. Though that doesn;t matter now because it done. Has your Fiance reached out to this friend at all and tried to talk to him about anything other than the wedding?

I don’t get the part about the Bridesmaid or Best Man proposing? Maybe he is upset because it sounds like you expected him to change his plans about proposing to fit around your wedding/engagement?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Not the exact same situation, but in order to avoid anyonehaving hurt feelings, my Fiance has 4 best men. He didn’t want to just choose 1 because they’re all so important to him. My only thing was I told him at the wedding I’m not okay with 18 toasts, so either they can all elect one person or they can do 1 toast together that’s short and efficient. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@icetea:  He has 4 attendants. I guess you could look at it as 4 best men or 4 grooms men. Whatever. Some things just aren’t worth getting uptight about, and for me, this was one of them. He was stressing about picking one and I figured, if it made him happy–then why not!

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