(Closed) Best Man / Bridesmaid dilemna

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think the best man should grow up and accept that she is your friend and it is your wedding and you can have anyone you want in the wedding party. It has been three years. He needs to just put it behind him. I am sorry if that seems harsh, but that is just the way I feel about it. If it was me, I would be the one telling him that he needs to grow up and just deal with it. It is not his wedding. It is your’s and your FI’s wedding. What does your Fiance say. By The Way, your wedding date that you have listed has passed???

Post # 5
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1103 posts
Bumble bee

I agree with noritake. It was 3 years ago!!!! They dated briefly!!!! It’s not like they were married and she cheated on him and is bringing the guy she did it with as a date, a week after the divorce is finalised. The best man needs to get over himself and grow a pair. You’ve got a year until the wedding which gives him ample time to do that 🙂

Post # 6
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am now going on my second wedding where I have to stand up with an ex! As much as I would not rather do this, its a part of being an adult. I also want to be there for my friend. The Bridesmaid or Best Man needs to act like an adult, he is just making himself look so much more foolish!

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