(Closed) Best Man drama! (VENT)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

Um… your Fiance should be standing up for you and telling his Bridesmaid or Best Man to stop being a douche. You shouldn’t be having to deal with him at all actually. I would have your Fiance tell him to stop bothering you, and have your Fiance relay what he will be doing from now on in the wedding.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

That is extremely frustrating. Where is your Fiance in all of this? Telling you to just ignore him is dismissing you and your comfort. Fiance needs to a) understand this is making you upset and that is all that should matter — something is making you, his gal, unhappy, and b) tell this Best Man to knock it off. It is his business to do so as it is his friend. Good luck!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@bellagio: ‘Douche’ was exactly the word that came to mind for me, too. 😉

Post # 7
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2053 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@HeatherShane: Do what you can to avoid him alone at all costs. Have the wife meet you at your home or wherever you’re headed, or have Fiance around when you pick her up.

Post # 9
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2657 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

He should NOT be in the wedding. Period. What kind of best friend is trying to rile and get his best friends future wife pissed at u?????

Isnt this odd?? U need to sit down and tell your Fiance that he needs to pick someone else. TODAY!!!!

And u can lecture your Fiance for me and ask him y is he letting this so called best friend treat his best friends Fiance like crap??????????

Reading this has gotten me pissed now. Girl I wish some of us bees can come and back u up with your Fiance and this (child).

Just get him out of your wedding!!! Both of u need support during your big day and with the crap hes pulling, he will be a terror!!! Dump him now. Plus for a Best man to say he WONT take pics?!?!?! What kind of dumby is he??? He should know that that is a give. 

 SO the point is, he knows hes acting like a huge A$#!!!! Did your Fiance ever wonder Y his friend is even trying to get under your skin??????? Y would he even put up with that?!?!?!?!?!?

Talk to your Fiance now and tell him that u guys WILL NOT have this man in your wedding. Tell him that he is not a friend!!!! To try and rile someone on purpose?????? Thats not a friend!!!!!!!

Both of u need support on this big day….not someone who wants to rile the bride!!!!! I just dont get it?!?!?!?!

I hope your Fiance realizes this and talks to the guy today. In fact have him call him today. U guys dont need that crap!!!!!

Oh and u can show this to your Fiance if u want. Please tell him, this guy, if he was a true friend would never even consider riling the bride!!!!!!!! I feel bad for his wife!!!!!! What does his wife say??? Does he know what a douche she married????

Let us know what happens. 

Oh and u guys need to slowly distance yourslef from this (child). That is NOT a friend.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@HeatherShane: Good idea. I just got so pissed for u.lol If he odes end up being in the wedding, and he still says that he doesnt want to take pics,HEY ALL THE BETTER FOR U!! At least u wont have this crazy man in your pics!!! 

And frankly u have a good idea of slowly seperating from him after the wedding. Cause frankly I hate the whole thinking of peoples actions when they are on meds or whatever.

And like that other thing.People who murder plead insanity because of meds,etc. My thinking is, I dont care if they are crazy or not, u still murdered. He has to know how he treats people!! I dont know……

But yeah. Good luck.

My Fiance has a friend who only contacts him for money,rides etc. I cant stand the guy and his wife!!!! lol

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