(Closed) Best Man is talking crap about our wedding! Advice? (long)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
593 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would try and figure out what his possible motivations for making these constant hurtful “jokes” could be. It almost sounds like he’s jealous or is feeling bad about himself because his friend is taking a big step in his life and he’s not?

If this is really how he jokes around and your Fiance eventually laughed it off too, maybe he just doesn’t realize that he’s actually being upsetting.

Post # 5
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

If I were you, I’d be upset. I would tell Fiance to get to the bottom of it, whether he’s  good at confrontation or not. He should understand that YOU are upset by it, whether the best man thinks these are just silly jokes or not. Good luck! 🙂

Post # 6
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would have FH talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and how the people that you are friends with feel the same way when he says those things. Maybe he doesn’t realize that he is being rude. People who are in your wedding are supposed to be positive and supportive.


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