Post # 1
I’m trying to write a post for my blog about why you SHOULD have a really solid wedding day timeline and the only reasons I can come up with are:
-Gets people off your back.
-Creates a more relaxing environment
-Helps vendors know when you want key events to happen.
Anyone else got any good reasons you should always have a detailed timeline in place?
Post # 3
EVERYONE is on the same page with you, so they know exactly what should happen when. That way, there’s no question if the cake should be cut before or after dinner, when/where pictures are being taken, and who is assigned to what task!
Post # 4
@abbie017: Yessss! Your reason is the main reason I’m even writing the post…at one of my weddings last year the bride didn’t tell me her friend was singing a song during dinner so I was out shooting details and was totally surprised when I came back in!
Post # 5
@kate169: Maybe also, because grooms work better when they are told exactly what to do and when to do it.. hahahah!
Post # 6
I also think that if you have a timeline, and something gets off track, you will have a much easier time shifting things around – because you can see it all in one spot and know where you can shorten other things.
Post # 7
You can build in 1 hour of “freak-out” time, so if you are running behind, you have definite space to catch-up.
Post # 8
For me the detailed timeline helped in a couple of ways. Everyone knew who was responsible for what. It’s one thing that friend X knows she must move the flowers from the cocktail tables to the escort card tables, but does friend Y know that? And if friend Y doesn’t know that, what if they suddenly start moving flowers thinking they are being helpful.
It also helped me keep track of everything. Who and in which car will get box A to the reception? For instance, in the process of detailing who was going to be in what car for the trip from the hotel to the venue, I realized that the morning after there was an extra car and I’d be driving home in a separate car from my new hubby.
It also helped map things out in my mind. I had to think about people flow and time gaps.