best way to cut contact while leaving the door open for future reconciliation

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@incognitobee3:  A clean break is always be. Maybe you will force him to grow up a little.

Post # 33
1447 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Run far far away.  Wipe all memory of him from your life, and go do things that make you happy.  Chances are you will find someone who is way awesomer than you think your ex is.

Post # 34
3094 posts
Sugar bee

Why would you want to be with a narcissist anyway?

You will be waiting for him to get it together while he is exploring other options and having sex with other people (and probably you at times) while you two stay ‘friends’.  Forget what he says. Look at his actions.  His actions show that his heart is not with you.  Cut contact. You are setting up yourself for years of pain. You shouldn’t have to wait around in the hopes of him getting a revelation.  That alone tells me you need to move on.

Post # 34
4 posts

incognitobee3:  Hi there, I know it’s been a long time, but curious how this worked out for you and if you had any advice based on your experience? In a very similar situation and feeling a little lost 🙂

Post # 36
588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

best way to cut ties is go cold turkey. Move on. Find someone who wants to be with you and there is someone. Sometimes we get into these relationships where so much emotion and time has been invested that you don’t want to lose that effort as a failure. When really the failure is lingering on in a half life. Just find someone new! You will be a zillion times happier and better off

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