(Closed) Bestfriend told me that he is in love with me!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
586 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wait, he’s literally supposed to be married today? Well…I mean I guess you can’t do anything until you see what happens with that.

Am I getting that right? Did I miss something?

Post # 4
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2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You have to follow your heart. It seems really easy to say and silly almost but that’s the truth of it. Only you know how you feel and where your heart is. I wish you luck.

Post # 6
Member
586 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Huh. Ok, well then yeah…you just have to wait and see I think. If he’s married, he’s married. That will be his decision and whether it’s the right one or not, you have to respect it. That’s just my opinion though.

Of course you could always do the dramatic, yelling and banging on the courthouse door to stop the wedding thing. I’ve always wanted to see that in real life. (Er, at a stranger’s wedding).

Post # 7
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4824 posts
Honey bee

He needs to make the decision that is best for him and you make the decision for you.

It sucks that people would get hurt, but people would be more hurt in a year or two when it doesnt work out for him/you and there is a marriage involved.

Post # 8
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1537 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

He’s supposed to be married TODAY and this is just coming out now!? I would tread very carefully with this one. Although he may have feelings for you because of your history it could also be very possible that he’s got a case of the cold feet. The days leading up to a wedding can be very stressful. Despite the fact that he is your friend and you might want to support him, I would seriously consider distancing yourself from the situation until he has clearly made up his mind. I would also take into account the fact that you are in a relationship. Whatever you do, don’t make any hasty decisions because it is very hard to live down the label of being a “home wrecker” even when it wasn’t your fault. My best advice to you would be to let things play out and see where it goes from there. If he does get married please don’t pursue this anymore. Although you may need to have a further conversation down the road I would let some time pass.

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