(Closed) Bestfriend/Sister all of a sudden wont talk to me now that Im engaged.

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ha you tried to talk to her maybe invote her for a sit down? My younger sister was the same way only she didnt have kids it just turned out she was jealous she did not get the wedding she wanted and I am. She is also mad that i have a son ( he came by surprise last year) and her and her husband have been trying to have a baby for awhile. She would not talk to me, email me, call me, or text. It took my dad talking to her to get her to meet me. I wanted her to be my Matron of Honor she is now over the moon excited. Give it time still let her know you care and want to still do kids things. She will come around siters are sisters.

Post # 4
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496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 1993

@FutureMrsRoos:  What do you think triggered it? Think back maybe you said somethingwith out even realizing it. If this happened with one of my sisters I would say, “Hey, did I say something for you to think that way? Because if I did I didn’t do it on purpose. You can tell me, I’m so sorry if I did. I love my nephews! And I love spendidng time with them. Let’s talk about this, yeah?”

Post # 5
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6359 posts
Bee Keeper

She’s envious because your life is more “successful” than hers. Give her time, be the “bigger person.” She probably has very low self-esteem right now which is why she’s acting like a jerk. You should not put up with her being rude to you, but do give her some time to get her self-pity out of her system, and don’t take it too personally. She should come around after some time, hopefully apologize for her terrible behavior, and you’ll be as close as before. The key is going to be time, and you staying calm and patient with her “tantrum” until it passes. Try to concentrate on other things while you wait. Such as your upcoming wedding!

Post # 6
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733 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Is she married or engaged, or even with the father of these kids?

You getting engaged could be a huge jealousy point for her and she may feel low about not being married herself.

Post # 9
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6215 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

=( I would ask her if there’s something going on in her life that’s bothering her. You’re probably not the issue here.

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