(Closed) Bettering yourself while waiting

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper

It is great that you are bettering yourself! Regardless of waiting or not it is always a great idea to have goals to improve yourself.

I only question a store being too nice to go into with purchasing? That is odd. Do not be intimidated, many people browse high end stores. I love shopping online but it is not always the best source to find a ring. It is much easier to see it in person.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Are you Ok with his seeming “fake hints” at a proposal? I can’t tell from your post whether these are lighthearted or make you feel bad. He seems to be teasing you and getting your expectations up, only to let you down.

As for self improvement: always a great idea. Sounds boring, but I adore decluttering. Have you read, “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up”? Great way to start.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

I am throwing myself into my last two CPA exams and then going to start Zumba with the intent on losing 30 pounds and toning. I will also start hanging out with my friends more and being more active outside my relationship. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee

so i knew there was a propsal coming for about six months. let me tell you, it was so hard to wait. it consumed my mind and my every thought. I knew it was coming cuz he had an ultimatum. i picked out the ring and after that still had to wait two months! insanity!!!!!!!!! now, after all that waiting, now i have to wait to start planning the wedding. His parents i guess are paying for alot of the wedding and they said well start planning in september, we got engaged in may. can you imagine the torture? Im resentful of his mom making me wait, but if she is going to $ then i will get over it. what can you do? all we can do is wait, but not too long!!!

 

Post # 8
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Helper bee

becks90 :  no i cant anything cuz i dont know what the budget is. my hands are tied completely. ive added things to my pintrest board but thats all i can do right now. i dont know if im plannig for a wedding with a $30,000 budget or with a $60,000 budget. no idea! i cant even bring it up till then, although in august when i see her im asking her ” so well start planning next month”? theres a reason shes making me wait, too perosnal to share :/ thanks 🙂 i know your will happen soon, just focus on u, work out, save money and itll go by!

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