(Closed) Beyond frustrated

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
149 posts
Blushing bee

It’s YOUR wedding, do it the way you want! If they love and support you, they will be there regardless! 🙂

Post # 3
395 posts
Helper bee

I’m in a very similar place. I moved countries to be with my bf, got a job here but I miss my family/friends back home. I’m mostly with his friends (I have very few friends here), I’m getting paid half what I used to earn and have less annual/sick leave than what I used to have…  and although his parents are lovely I’m not too comfortable with them… They keep hinting regarding a wedding (his grandma told us many times how much she would like a grandchild) and it’s a bit tough…

I think it’s great you are holding your ground. It’s best if your fiance would be on the same page with you so he can talk to his parents and not you. That’s what we do… for example every single time we come to visit them they try to give us food/appliances/stuff and I told my bf it’s hard for me to tell them no because I don’t want to offend them and we agreed that he would be the one who will decline. And when they start with the wedding talks he is the one to shut those conversations down…

So I would definitely talk to your fiance about how difficult this is for you and he needs to let his mum know that you are making the decisions regarding the wedding and even though she may not agree with some of those decisions there’s a reason behind every single decision and she needs to let you organize it…

Good luck!



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